Table of contents : foreword introduction part one: a paralyzing predicament chapter 1: who we pretend to be chapter 2: do we really want authenticity? chapter 3: come out of hiding chapter 4: realize brokenness is not weakness part two: the path from perfect to real chapter 5: let go of people-pleasing chapter 6: be brutally honest with God chapter 7: give away your shame chapter 8: rediscover your identity part three: embracing God’s preferred picture of you chapter 9: taking off our masks chapter 10: living a transformed life acknowledgments notes Bible credits