Table of contents : contents Cover Title Page Copyright Dedication FOREWORD: by Regena Thomashauer INTRODUCTION: This Is a Book About Sexual Awakening CHAPTER ONE: How a Sexologist Ended Up in a Sexless Relationship CHAPTER TWO: Foundations for Your Erotic Journey CHAPTER THREE: Who Are We? Erotic Blueprints Are Born CHAPTER FOUR: Erotic Myths CHAPTER FIVE: Five Stages of Sexuality: Which One Are You Living In? CHAPTER SIX: The Five Erotic Blueprint Types CHAPTER SEVEN: The Energetic CHAPTER EIGHT: The Sensual CHAPTER NINE: The Sexual CHAPTER TEN: The Kinky CHAPTER ELEVEN: The Shapeshifter CHAPTER TWELVE: Determining Erotic Blueprints CHAPTER THIRTEEN: How Blueprints Play Together CHAPTER FOURTEEN: The Four Obstacles to Sexual Health and Pleasure CHAPTER FIFTEEN: Creating Your Core Erotic Blueprint Map CHAPTER SIXTEEN: Feeding, Speaking, Healing, and Expanding Your Erotic Blueprint CHAPTER SEVENTEEN: Creating Hot Sex for a Lifetime Acknowledgments Resources for Sexual Health, Awakening, and Discovery Notes Exercise Index About the Author