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Chase Hughes has been teaching and researching the art of attraction for six years. He resides in Honolulu, Hawaii, where he is stationed in the US Navy.

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Imagine... You take your first few steps into the bar. People stop what they are doing to look and wonder who you are. Ag you walk, women are looking you over, adjusting their hair and making sure you see them, guys are getting out of your way and you see the body language of the whole room begin to shift towards you. "Is he a celebrity or some thing?", you hear from across the bar. As a woman that would make most guys fall to their

knees walks behind you, you grab her .arm and she takes in a deep breath of excitement that she is able to talk to you. After two minutes, she's bringing her friends to meet you, buying you drinks and touching you every time she laughs. Within ten minutes, you are kissing her. You tell her things are moving to fast and you'11 come find her later. As you say goodbyes, you walk straight up to the next group of women and

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Introduction INTELLIGENCE BRIEFING Mission Goals Female Psychology

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SAFETY

EEDS

DHYBIDLODICAL/SGRVIVAL

All

NEEDIS

Works

scientist

and

psychologist

named Abraham Maslow made an incredible observation nial 1943. Maslow theorized that all humans must meet a set of basic or funda-

33

ode] for

fulfill greater

c this was ‘named aslo B Hierar begins here image of Needs." The with

wherein

of

bottom

the

physiological

basic

the

pyramid,

the

needs of life must be met to reach These needs. of set higher the digestion, water, food, are needs While each and shelter. breathing, level has very broad definitions of what

needs

are

to

be

met,

concentrate on the needs to pertaining erarchy

will

on the hiseduction

attraction.

and

interaction,

I

safety. is up level next The the level, like the previous Just to all aniapplicable are needs Safety indicates the need to mals. feel protection from threats, freeand especomfortable, to be dom When you safety. emotional cially walk up to a group in a bar, the girls are pretty sure that a bomb will not go off, no one will attack and they are free to relax. them, an ANG is only element that The d s to safety concerned with in rec is the setting limitation

display

the traits et the

AMG,

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stable

and

she

has

the

SAFETY

of

knowing you are a man who won't b5lów up on nor, “ALE “nev; "oc boundaries Having her. threaten have you that know others lets you what on limits well-defined and yourself from tolerate will The environment alone other people. almost always meets the first two levels of Maslow’s Hierarchy before you even approach. The next higher level are the needs of belonging and love-not the love that you see in Disney cartoons Or to feel

chick flicks, but a needed, appreciated,

need and

validated. When she realizes you are an AMG, she becomes attracted to you. She feels the need to be liked and appreciated by someone with higher status than her. Thais is the very essence of qualification. When you screen a girl with questions and validate her responses to them, she feels that there are very specific things about

her

that

make

her

UNIQUE

to

You, This 336 the most crucial part of the seduction process. Esteem is next. Here, the process in the 5-2-6 method of validation takes place, and she feels a Strong

sense

of

achievement

for

roc CEhreougH all “of your defenses. Once she knows you are really into her through validation

39

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since she wag abia a and| make you lik lke

legitimizes that to win you over|

This status. 1S high she her that phase also includes a great dea] of

responsibility over

velops,

her

on

part.

She de-

of

roughly

course

the

of re. a sense 45 minutes, about sponsibility and loyalty to you. fr feels a she when itself manifests

to take

need

stronger

slightly

care

of you, nurture the ongoing converand try to keep herself on sation, von win to in order point fully into a relationship. is the full realiActualization zation of the relationship. The beginning of sexual and emotional relationships makes women very nervous and excited in the face oreo emotionsexually, fulfilled ing ally, and physically by a man. When a woman sees a man’s potential, she sizes up the potential of the rela-

and

tionship

before

relationship

the

mini

sets

goals

for

anything

sets she As happened. even has she feels more these expectations, and more validated and fulfilled 4° they are met or exceeded.

Maslow's pyramid is not a method or a technique, but a reference t?

be

into

understood

women.

the

war

prior

zone

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F-oecus: Hijacking her attention Span-hyper focus I-nterest: Making her realize whom she's

talking

to

V-alue: Giving her reasons to chase you E-motional hijacking: Taking Control of her state T-akeaways: Expressing a little interest

and

finding

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flaws

CHASE HUGHES her

Qualifying

W-illingness:

“sensitive”

Showing your O-penness: side the laying c-eduction: for sex

sex

beyond

tion

It

explained:

FIVE-TWO-SIX

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the

visual

how

the

5-2-6

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www. themenspassport.com. repremodel the of bottom The ten sents the 5-2-6 acronym and the and mating steps of the attraction

represents side Mert The process. of each line value the percentage The top as they traverse the chart. fumes of the model is the SUGGESTED

in mind

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having meaningful conversations you are making her chase you. The second line represents her resistance to you. The way she feels about you makes her decide whether to open her doors to you or shut you down. AS you progress on the model within the first few minutes of the interaction, her resistance will plummet. As you near sex, her fears of male abandonment and pregnancy will cause a huge spike in her reSistance and sexual arousal. It is inside of every woman you’ll ever Meet Fhe. only. thing. that. will vary is the intensity. few dxbitsd lrine..ontbe -model Peypresents your social status in relationto hers. Notice as you

approach that your value is nificantly lower than hers. already put you into the basket just because you are proaching her. As you enforce the role leader, as pack value above

will continue hers and level

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during phase

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connection-building 5-2-6

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touched

progresses, of touch Each step

by you.

As

the amount

the

process

and intimacy

will gradually increase. in the method is followed

by examples

of

touching

and physishould

be

Remember

to

and

contact

that

can

used

within

that

step.

keep hand

talking while you hold her to distract her from object-

cal

ing, and to ALWAYS break contact before she does. If you sense she might object, remove your hand immediately BEFORE she says anything. dust doing -this simple thang. caa build a whole lot of. trust wzth her. Mw personal’ favorite | line" to look at is the last line. It makes a very sharp turn upward at the beGummmang ot the interaction. This shows her attraction development throughout alr interaction. As you approach "It's at» rock bottotj she's thinking about getting rid of you until you open your mouth. As you do, the line begins a dramatic and obvious climb upward and continues to gradually rise throughout tie anteraction. The rapid drop represents her fears before sex. The capitalized letters on the model are representations of what milestones

should

roughly

place during the use of method. As you can see,

girl’s

hand

you meet

when 4]

be

taking

the 5-2-6 holding a

her

can

CHASE HUGHES The

seconds

40

as

early

can

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phone

minuteg three under to a good reference

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peronly

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initially

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model

The "P" shoot for. of kind of what an indicator is and for tO shoot formance a goal.

take place can in durat on, into the method. ten minutes

short about

still you the break

to one the be she can before

to have embrace

it’s ehate

sure make On be more

SO anything, say will There quick. later.

from 15 take place Kissing will bo. 45 minutes into the interaction.

Flip learn

to

"Quick

the

more

Kiss

Guide"

to

now.

eminvolves touching Intimate braces with elongated eye contact, closebiting, caressing the skin, hani light: smelling, proximity and VERY kissing, deeper pulling, brief genital contact. thing Backing off is the hardest demonIt is a deliberate to do.

disinterest, of and Stration Women THRIVE drives her crazy. anticipation

and

sexual

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meant

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15

the 1t?

THE PASSPORT basic structure is followed. It’s possible to have perfect skills and kiss a girl after 30 minutes instead of 15. I have seen guys blast

through all of the steps in an hour and take a girl home almost immediately. The

entire 5-2-6 method cannot be fully completed in one place. It can be broken up over a few dates,

Gr in one night. It is up to von. Don't try to have a deep conversation in an ear-shattering, noisy club. It's obviously time to go to a quieter place. On the same note, you engage aren't going to in a make-out inside session full-blown final The restaurant. of a family seeps are for bedrooms and iiving rooms of someone's house. YOUR

TOOLKIT

The techniques in the toolkit should be used interchangeably. Pick and choose them to suit your personality, mood, or desired fun

levels. What you change your

are about to read view of the world.

will

as you In the next few minutes, Skim through the toolkit, you will moments. crap" "holy a few have be able to will you Eventually, create your own lines, stories, and

43

CHASE HUGHES

ten

use

for

designed

until

of-

as

and

much

as

like

you'd

as

are

techniques

These

techniques.

feel

vou

pushing your own matecomfortable When you rial out into the world. get à might you these, use first phenomenon This looks. funny few

because

happens

techniques)

and

body

your

language

and voice tones may not match The more you use each other.

the

better

(the

words

your

everything

up.

line

will

get to try you When dominant, into a positive, keep in mind ful mind-set, whether you question more

up to them,

YOoUBBeuE or playthat the you are

"in the mood" or not, you writ pu from further and further yourself and will force being in the moment yourself to be too self-conscious. what question to begin When you kind of mood you are in, you Overanalyze yourself and focus your energy inwardly instead of outwardly. Get into the mood or state of mind

BEFORE

you

are

When

you

going

you

attractive

to

meet

assume

woman

her like most women power will astonish

women.

begin

treat you.

Answer the following before you proceed:

1. What do "perfect"

women

treat

2.What

men

do

like?

the

treating

guys,

the

questions

and gorgeous

incredibly 44

of

role

the

and

where

place

a

into

go

hot

women

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say

to men who try to pursue them? 3. What things do hot women say

and

to

do

make

chase

men

them?

4. How does the average guy (you) feel when he is talking to a supermodel-quality girl who seems almost flawless? On the male side, where men look for thighs, breasts, beauty, and sexiness, women look for leaderro. dominanca,kum, contadence; mud cosrdl status. Our TSA xs therr AMG.

Approach

by

Situation

There are more ways than I can count to meet women, and even more oon SErew IE up. When you are ma BOOS tONS, yOu Cannot do the same things you would do in a bar or club. Here’s a breakdown of loCations and recommended styles to use. We'll go from the lowest envi-

ronmental

stimulus

and

work

our

way

up. Coffee Shop: Coffee shops are great for meeting women. They have become the new clubs. When you are in a

coffee

shop,

aren't

in

their

natural

a

it’s club

quiet,

and

women

environment

where

defenses

are

up

against men. Here, you have two baBe. ootlone; = a direct approach, 45

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will

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lationship"

in

that

the

Bookstore:

of

luxury to

question.

approach

guide.

something

having

always

grab

can

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the

offer

Bookstores

about.

talk

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your use and anything almost on Grab a book on dating; imagination. for

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to

it

use

and

instance,

a

who "friend," your about question a question you text-messaged just There's enar uc icale es paJie his about with her; to walk plenty of space shop a coffee usually and there’s you can lead her to after about ten of game. minutes You will always; approach the to use need however,

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ai

structure

the

any

when

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kind

of

you

approach.

Every to malls. flock Mall: Women different have will there Medias that day her wm on doing roin eness ct

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high-status soon

have

have,

a

girl

it

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it's

best

direct

approach

fast.

If

her

and

to

use

get

friends

her

are

a

very

number

there,

you'll have to butter up the defensive line before you can get a good number. This only takes a couple of minutes if done correctly. It's all in the toolkit. In the malls, just concentrate on having the "greatest day of your life" mentality. When you approach in a store, make her try funny stuff on, dare her to say weird

things

to

the

employees,

and

make fun of how much of a "good girl" she is. Keep it light, involved, and fun. There's no substitete quality "for fan. Erenn dE you're

and

rich,

famous..fun

smart,

is

the

good-looking,

key.

Street: On the street, women are thinking about errands, family, friends, and their own lives. When you approach on the street, always ask a relationship question. This

usually ties into their already-inprogress thought process and makes it easier for a quick scribbling of the number or email. The street is a little harder someone walking

because if you stop the opposite direc-

tion, they start to become concerned about their schedule. If the girls are walking in the same direction as you are, you either have to slow way down or run up to them, 47

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Bars and Clubs: Bars reward never almost

ap-

interest-conveying

directly

Bars

proach.

ames

are

clubs

and

environment, high-stimulus tremely you need to be so to approach here, and ,

commanding interesting, more environment the than fun with girls are there to hang get

friends,

drunk,

and

will

get

let

(most thea

the

mu-

distract lights flashing and sic therr in. problems the from them The retaj around you. daily lives) questions childhood ana tiouship. d elubss are best suited for bars an got to be loud and project You've . ums over the noise to be heard and guys most is where This derstood.

think

they

laid,

get

garde »deceene a find and lucky, is more there Just because friend. g to choose from and they are wearin slutty clothing does not mean that

there

the women ity.

The

best

are

reports

of

good

I get

qual-

from my

am they when from are students daytime: the in girls proached fast-food a even or mall, store,

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When a ^ iot of my students started, they got in a huge rush to recite everything they memorized as fast as they could, hoping the words were the key to the girl's heart. It's not true. Remember to pause for effect, and speak as though you have all the time in the world. As soon as you begin using pauses in normal conversation and while

meeting

women,

the

attention-

grabbing power will amaze you. People are somehow drawn to pauses when they are timed to precede a good part in a story, a point being made, or even the end of a question. The 5-2-6 is an art form that fluctuates and varies in its scientific precision. Keep it fun, throw funny stories in whenever you feel fhe the cotiversation is flat-

lining, excuse yourself in the middle of the model to go talk to poner Girls in the bar, and feel free to bail on any woman whenever you ane

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This is the number one place where men get fear and anxiety for no reason. Most guys will see a woman and immediately launch into the thought cycle of “What opener do Lugar” and keep running it. over in their heads they have either until made the woman from freaked out or she has left the area. staring, Von rt-let thie happen to vou. ‘The so much only reason fear men have this is because around they think that this one woman will somehow either reject them and go tell every woman on planet, Cen ait or the there able to get her, they aren't won't be another one like her in ten thousand years. When approach you the FOCUS and go into stage, you must understand that she is only one Single woman and there are hundreds

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distinguish

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have been hitting on her since she was probably 16. Here’s the secret. The first thing in her head when a

guy walks up is that you are going to be one of those other morons. So, to combat this, you'll use an old sales technique called Tama tse the product. Tell her you only have a Second, "cause you have to be somewhere soon, but you need a quick opinion on something. Remember not to say the words “ladies” or “girls,” like some kind of weird player guy. Use “hey, guys” or just pidis hey. ^ -This combo has: worked wrn ubasStudents tor five years, and they’ve never gone out without this peowertul.-tool. Ping this phase. you will.approach the group and will encounter Some resistant body |language and maybe a little verbal resistance. As gr xe they are concerned, you Geer JUST, One of the thousands of men who will hit on them this year alone. Before you speak, you will be judged. You will demonstrate AMG

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wilt do the job. Pick your favorite find out which ones work for ones, you, and keep them in your pocket. When you deliver these, they should

just be a part of Simply initially.

the say

conversation it and keep

talking.

In this step, you will begin th?

touch

progression.

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and most 72

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1. Fake palm reading: You can use CDIS ase a touch-building technique. Take her hand in yours Ae DLewenad =to Lead her palm, but

tell

her

that

her

palm

says

she will be a dork for eternity. . Body language demonstrations: Use

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in

grab

one

her

of

and

demonstrative

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move

girl ma body E. dame

parr

position.

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The

elongated

you

make

contact

hand-hold:

with

her

through fake palm reading, hold her Nand dust a

longer

than

usual.

When

Ag

hand etc,, little

you’ re

holding her hand, let your arm relax and lower Naturally as you continue talking. This will dig.

tract

her

while

she

unknowingly

becomes used to your touch. sure to break contact first. 4. Reaching up and pulling a hairs back behind her ear.

Be

few (Do this nonchalantly while telling a Story or anytime when she won t interrupt to say anything ct.)

About

V-ALUE

Here you. will show her that BAe Ss just slightly below us on the social food chain, while -we also Paid a little bit of sexual tenSion and attraction. There are easy reve roodo thas. During. this phase, you also reveal one childhood short Story. You will hold hands with her, lock arms to walk somewhere,

~r

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reak

move

her

She was

Value

out

her

of

the

in before is

a

few

mental

you came

defined

as

the

feet

to

bubble

around.

ability

to boost someone's social status or beliefs about their gocial status is

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coolness.

condition

of sheer one In

Value

of

is

being

or presence value word,

quality

the

ag. ig

or

socially

more

desired and attractive than others. her screen you will step, In this to is desirable she sure to make

you.

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also

the

feeling

Being

playful

enforces

for her that she is “earning” your affection. In this phase of the system, you to ability your demonstrate will withstand any kind of test or trae they decide to throw your way. It’s steep up the to get you designed in the line of the value incline interactions of the phase initial Take a look at the diagram and notice how quickly your value makes a climb in this phase. fun make deliberately you When also and you unique of something say that it’s something you like at the same time, she quickly realizes she’s not dealing with a guy who She also gets nervous around women. realizes that you understand how to sexual tension, your weapon build

of

and

mass

fun

attraction.

demonstrates

that

you

fixated on making her like aren't feeling is a refreshing This you. tor women when a man has no sense of neediness. Showing your freedom

from social conditioning and a lack of insecurity is instantly magnetic

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2.0)!

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she

SERENA You,

Start

make

Bection.

this phase, of the next,

likely

throw a few standard questions at you that she throws at every guy. When she asks you what you do, where you work, what your name is, or where you are from, don’t answer the question. Be it, but don’t answer it

right away. will let her

Either tell her you know in a minute, make

versation and get her number. YOU ask for the digi ts, make

She’s

in a happy

9f mind.

and

focused

The Way to achieve

When sure

frame

this is telling a quick stor y that has . umor and adventure th S about a minute. When at only she's in this good state, execute the techRiques at the end of the three| Minute Phone number technique: Tell E it was COOl /

D.

to meet

r and you 129 té run into her agaihen. 1 the sense of loss by Aswa you away, turn back around and lkgo

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to chat

descriptive

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number

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digits.

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gettin. a highly

Lor technique here 18 to use

to the buildup off as you look

huge

a

with

story

it cut and Tell watch.

ending at your

her you have to go, but you'll fig. Use the ish later. same technique

to

finish.

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focused reduces send

She

you

she

is

mood the

as you chance

to

in

voice

remembers

a

positive

leave her, it of having her

mail

the

why you

for

last

with you as a positive

understands

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one,

like

a

week.

encounter

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to

you

that

she

is,

gg ptor on

presses you now.) T Do you do fun stuff? B oring people are so.well, boring. Ha-ha. (Let

her

talk.)

10. Have

you ever stalked (Still kind of smiling.)

a

guy?

1k. There

are really two things I look for in a girl: She has to be honest and she has GOT to have a positive view of her own life. It seems like you've got the positive thing down pretty (Leave her hanging on the well.

and honesty part, tell her you don't enough yet.)

if she asks, know her well

going to kick your ass..l cm you say this crap to all se

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guys ;

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line

time.)

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1. Hand holding: by the hand,

i

When don't

you take he; keep Looking

harde;

any

squeeze

it or

at

down

4

than she is. Keep the leadj,, position and be completely comfortable with the fact that you can take her by the hand. She will be okay with it if you are The simple way to make sure yo, are comfortable is to ask your-

self, “How would did this all the

no big deal

I do this if t time and it wag

for me?”

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give

her

happy

her "report card.” her a happy face,

tien

of

quickly

faces

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on

When you give make the mo-

pulling

a

ticker off of a card and putiieA on her arm. This sounds

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all

crashing emotions have you

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club.

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loud

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location.

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a

move

her

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her

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problems

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conversation,

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place

you’ve

the colors feeling of of

the

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been

of the

to.

the sand,

cooking,

about

a

Describe

ocean, the the smells

etc.

2.While exchanging Stories, make her use more sensory words; Lt she’s not using any, ask her

questions tailed

about

the

experiences

more

de-

within

her

story.

3. Make

her

EMOTIONAL

tell

you

HIJACK

a

secret.

TOUCH

HIERARCHY

1. Notice something on her arm or hand: Make notice of a freckle, birthmark, or scratch on her arm or hand. When you announce TEY reach out and dift her arm/hand

into your view to look at it. As youw-do, keep going with a story or a routine while you look at it. When you are finished lookNg at it- Tet go. a wee her tO demonstrate a funny picture you saw of a couple hugging or posing for a photographer. oreo her Mand and “put “Lt in

yours. Ase you do, look around the place and talk about how she has to be your bodyguard from all the other women. If she lets

9°

of

actions

Dag

your

deal

hand

or

awkwardly,

out

"of 83

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at

don’t

at.

Just

your

make

a

roll

CHASE HUGHES silly

and else

--— to talking minute or two tg es

start for a

build

4. Make

the

sense

of

loss.

her

sit

on

your

leg

i;

Chairs

of

shortage

a

is

there

áhar c" Coo

who

realize

to

she'

like

her

at

eyes

your

to git her over When you bring on your leg, tell her not to try anything funny. Be resistant.

T-AKEAWAYS Ti

you

Here,

awi

reasons

find

you'd never work together and make You not. why you with argue her actual the begin her make will dhase at ENIS point. need to innate an have People Like we fill gaps in social space.

up

the

in

the

you

When to

conversation,

another

yet

will

talking

In

this

it

causes

sense

of

into the pulling

at

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to be with you. ence alone, she

her

19059

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conversation you close?

making

more

adie already

wan

or

louder,

passes

a void

create a

take

create.

you

feel

naturally

get you back of by means Overt

Space

deliberately

feel

She

or

void

will

she

earlier,

about

talked

you.

Just by sheer PI^ is letting YO" UM ^

she wants you to stick around. you ask her unique questions 84

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pout

THE PASSPORT.

oe

herself, she will want to respond with enthusiasm. As soon as you regpond with equal excitement about her

answer,

she

will

rejoice

inside

that you guys have something in common that both of you are excited about. As soon as you express exwill you answer, in her citement execute a quick shot of frustration in the realization that you are starting to feel attracted to her. She will pursue you even harder

now. The confused feel

more and

she sees irritated

attraction

for

her,

you acting that you the

more

ewes. try to bring it out of you. This is the beginning of the important personality-demonstration phase.

1. “Hey, what do you do for fun? And don’t say anything that takes place indoors. What! Oh my god! You aren’t supposed to say that! You’re going to get me in So much trouble! I'm supposed to

be this uber-bachelor!” (As soon 48 you say this, act completely Surprised

and

turn your back on her in a joking, childish way and wait for her to re-start the interaction, ) ' We would gooooo never work. I Would be running through your

85

¢

a a a

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I could

ing

the

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start

and

find

pil

hugest

the

with

room

living

; Of you. Eit | ow that or I would draw the if yo, on you little mustaches out

crap

ever fell asleep near me." question I have a serious . “Okay,

stuff in she says

the fridge tell yes, and

thing

same

the

juice

of

cartons

out

drink

you

you..do

for

the

of

and

milk

ang

you

were

hop-

qf do

or not?” her you

ing she would say that because you think that's one of the decan tell that qualities fining is cool or a girl you whether not.

Remember,

you

crazy.

want

you

her

to

know that you are resisting beSm If her. to attracted ing says no, tell her you hoped she you tobecause say that would tally agree with her on that and pet major your of one it's You had a roommate who peeves. did it all the time and it drove

Follow

up

this

by

hang can't totally “I saying, around with you now..that was the ONE thing I hoped we would disagree

on.

prodding, around really

A

se

2 as ©:

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l.Hand

I guess

huh?"

I have

another

Do

and cross dramatically. LOUCH

around

HIERARCH,

her 86

to keep

your

while

turn am

moving:

THE PASSPORT talking 9

to

other

Hand-holding

fingers.

W-ILLINGNESS

Here

you

people.

with

TO

ACCEPT

will

tell

interlocked

HER

her

specific

things you like about her that heard she's before, never These her experience with will validate

vou.

She

does

not

want

to

feel

like a slut, so this is why we are making sure she knows exactly why we like her. Kissing happen will here. Nothing

women

than

earned a watchword

is more satisfying to the feeling of having man's affection. The in WILLINGNESS is "vali-

dation.” When you validate parking, you give it justification and reason. The same goes for your Gitelis She needs a justification for being with you and for being so attracted to you so fast. Chances are that she hasn’t ever felt this Way about a guy so fast unless she's met a celebrity or some-

‘ing, phase,

When you she will be

start ready

the “W” for it.

Here, vou. will . deliberately Create voids in conversation and Srfect a. drastic emotional shift in her mood.

87

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TOOLS

I

" «you

are

supposed

nor

I'm ‘hae. like this."

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happen

eo

supposed

now?

you

into

so

my personal

fee]

to

definition

of

trouble."

doing this? - NHow tbe hell are you how gooda crap give I don’t i dan resist looking a woman i

whole press

anyone.

mean

anyone...

lot more than me and I don't

TE

takes

a

looks to imeven know you

well enough to know yetir” p Keep ask | "Where did you grow pp lead to Scithat ing questions sory-rich explanations. what did little, you were . "When rolling Feign be? to want you WI cant , your eyes and then Say

s you just said that. Thi or my one Did weird.

believe too is

n, friends put you up to this? Thewly slo as you shake your head, start

to turn

away

from her.

WILLINGNESS TOUCH HIERARCHY elongated with La Embracing

and

contact

eye

silence

2 Gentle hair pulling (back of im par aroun arm your a) Keeping

while

to

talking

other

peop?

(break it off first) shoulder massa. 4. A three-second Tell her you're the best as tos and

stop

after

three

88

seconds -

THE

sz. Kissing.

PASSPORT

(Refer

to

the

quick

guide.)

kiss

Q-PENNESS This

is

a

personality

demonstra-

tion phase that allows you to grind a lot of your personality into her by way of stories and memories. Demonstrating eraecial to the

step,

you

will

personality process: In

have

an

ACTUAL

is thig

con-

versation. No woman wants a status robot. She needs a human being who LISTENS. Throughout the entire proceee otf attraction, . you will feel an irresistible urge to ask standard loser questions like, “What do you do?” “Where are you meen ete. Don't Go it. Act siliv, play games, ask funny questions, or anything other than asking the standard questions. These are the questions she's heard from EVERY wy WHO has ever tried to sleep with her. When she hears them, it

triggers tion in

alone

losers me

will

remind

who have

assure

a few JP a

a shocking her mind. you

automatic Just the

her

of

approached

that

you

WILL

all

her. do

reacwords

the

Let this

times out of a need to fill silence in conversation or

et Of interésting topics. It's Okay when you are in the beginning 89

CHASE HUGHES

it

wily

itself eliminate as you develop the

fan abi].

naturally your game

more

run

ity

to

ing

conversation.

for

hold

and

solid

interest. |

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this

in

happening

Also will tive mera

but

learning,

of

phase

and more sugges. be a stronger touching and language body her eyes into look hand, her

a

few

her

seconds

close

to

without

you,

be the one to break and say, "Whoa.this

but

words

AtLwaye

contact first Si is scary

totally need to slow this down. I‘, enjoying this way too much. Ha-ha."

OPENNESS

TOOLS

1.

I

"When

was

a

kid,

my

goal in life was.to be a. (gem your pre-created story) 2. “I’m kinda getting wierded-out now...(she’ll ask why) well mi feel like it’s my birthday euhe I'm with you. You're becoming a drug for me and I might need to go to rehab now. We gotta slow Who the hell are you this down. that you can have this bb

over me? It feels weird 3. "Did you ever make your own popSicles when growing you were

up?"

(Start

childhood

her,

very

When

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you

things 90

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connect

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stories)

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baseline.

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5

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progress

and

the P quently, your connection

significantly

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larger.

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lowed

kissing by

a

conversation.

and

back

embrace

off

fol-

and

more

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you

knowing

what

will

to

have

do

tools

for

say.

you

and

will play the role of the resistor NEN. Everything that girls normally do before they get to a bed-

room,

you

will

beat

them

to

it.

This is where the process of the real cat and mouse game begins. Women are extremely similar when it comes to selecting a mate, but the

closer they get to the bedroom, the more different they will seem. We will work with almost every possiDle situation here so you have all

-he tools

you

Obviously, Club anymore. in a living

need

for

the

job.

you aren't in the By now, you should be

room

or

someplace

where

? bedroom is only a few steps away. The most important thing to remember is this: Do NOT let her be 9]

CHASE HUGHES

resist

to

the

one

the

one

be

gently

her,

kiss

to

must

You

you.

Mes

her

let

NOT

Do

this:

is

member

the back of her hair and pull a ros a

“ie pit, and

tell

look her right in the

her,

Until to. resisting

I'm loving this too much.” always were women day,

you. Not anymore. You can laugh now.

It

ely

slow

to

need

"We

goog

feels

doesn't it? once you both get back to your tell her she can only stay house, and then she has to for a second, go. You can actually tell her you're not going to sleep with her tonight. When she walks into your house, tell

your

her ace

you because it. If she's

LIMITS

OFF

is

bedroom

her

for

her to want don't into you,” this Wis

drive her crazy having these boundashe that bedroom the around ries can’t break. When you Okay, back to business. her house, get back to your house, sure you make you go, or wherever

keep backing off and resisting her You can her. you kiss time every initiate the kiss, but you MUST be the

to

one

this

In

doing

say,

"Hold

phase,

everything

only

do.

The

are

beating

you

that

on."

are

difference

them

with progressing env but back off

to

the for

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re-initiate and continue. Keep this process active all night to build anticipation: advance, advance, and back

off.

SEDUCTION TOUCH HIERARCHY 1. Kissing

. Tight bo UJ

embrace

with

eye

contact

. Hand-to-genital/breast (Briefly as if you just hand over it)

contact ran your

4. Kissing her neck and shoulders 5. More deliberate genital contact

I-NTERACTION

Here you will demonstrate a willingness to not have sex at all. This will show her that you care about her and are not just after sex with her. You'll share a very private story now, about something Ehat .seallv. touched. vou. .Don't worry; there are plenty of samples to follow. This step will take you into the last phase of the mating process: Sex. Here you will demonstrate a need to be with her for other reasons than sex. She will feel safe, comfortable,

and

more

open

to

you

after this phase. Moen things start to get hot, most guys will try to turn a woman on and get her really ready for sex

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like nonsexual make a a game,

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following sex. A millennia would have risked her own

well as if

the

the

lives

male

did

following

a

offspring;

of her stay

not

sexual

ago, she life, as her

with

encounter

that

caused strate

a pregnancy. When you demona willingness and happiness?

to

with

be

her

with

absolutely

nO

sex at all, "Sex

alarm"

it tells her biological

this

shows

maturity,

total

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calm

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styles

self-mastery.

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gortable sex,

and

but

satisfied

just

spending

her. | When things pack off. Tell you'd

like

to

having

time

with

start to heat up, her whatever reason stop

for

this is a crucial her your level of discipline. INTERACTION

not

a

break,

but

step to showing independence and

TOUCH

HIERARCHY

There should be touching, embracing, this phase.

little to or anything

no in

X-SEX

Use anticipation, build tension, increase tempo, back off a second, and repeat. DIRECT

APPROACHING

TECHNIQUES

Direct implies the immediate communication of your attraction to her and involves a very high level

of confidence

l. "Hey,

and

playfulness.

I'm

not

sure

what

pulls

it

out,

simply

it

is,

but I have a good feeling that you have a lot more going for you than beauty alone. I have to get going, but I’d like to chat. When Do you have a cell phone?" She

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tell

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put

to

she

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hi.

to

her

tell

does,

it

into

number

your

send. This used

number her got just You P technique a solid is it will a]. and for years

ways

work

your

confidence

are

aligned.

at

girls,

your

playfulness

and

or

girl,

a

by

Walking

her

at

out

tongue

and and

over

walk

back,

it

stick

lets When

that face a mean-kid playing. are you know does

gropes

place,

daytime

a

ang

single

she's

if

make her she tell

ME her she's got a cute tongue it's too pink. Tell her jouer e seems it and energy her ie. for going more got she's than her looks and getan. UE tote If they don ber.

tongue out at you, vouMSqM EE walk up and use a regular direct approach. M "WEGEN late I'm . "Hey,

with

together

friends

some

and

D I've got to go, but wiat a doing this Saturday at nine?” If she’s free, If not, get proceed.

her

number

with

and bail.

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yourself.

I

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looking,

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fully,

and

follow

are

when you

the

the

wing.

wingman

guide

1. Don’t approach a group of girls together. One of. you must go first for about two minutes, run solid material, will enter stage

and the left. As

wingman soon as

the wingman comes into the interaction, -cimmecdiarely.: fill him in on the conversation and introduce him to the group. This eliminates the feeling women get when two guye. Approaocb two giris; I; 1s

completely of you are

obvious that going to hit

the two on them.

Go in alone. Your wing come in second. ?^. If you or your wingman talking j

rTuptino "ingman wingman

Value

girls.

even.

the and

and

iim.

Most

status

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to

inter-

turn to TO HIM.

have

idiots

starts

vou're

Girls, LISTEN

should

should

you

are

tons

your Your more

than the

so

excited

CHASE HUGHES that that

they are they will

talking to ignore their

keep and man STOP IT! girls.

talking Your wing

important

ANY

than

girls wingthe more

to is

woman

in

the

bar, and if he wants to talk over the girls or interrupt them, yoy must behave as one speaking. . Brag

about

don't

overdo

looks

away

if

he's

your

it. or

only

wingman,

As

you

the

soon

have

a

but

as

he

second

to speak to the girl heis gona for, brag about him. “This guys my best friend. He is the coolest guy in the world. Do you know who he is?" Building him up like ma celebrity is something that will boost both of your status. . When you and your wing are not engaged in conversation with women, keep a solid, funny, ez; cited conversation. Do not look around the bar for more interesting things or hot women "Your

wing

should

be

your

focus

point

and whoever is speaking between the two of you should hold the attention of the other. When you

look your his

that hold ers

well.

around the club/bar while wing is talking, de me status. It tells everyone

he’s not important enough t9 your attention, and $t om $95 level status own your

98

THE PASSPORT 5. Keep

your

should be lines you

you

have,

wingman

in

the

know.

He

informed of all of the will use, the routines and

the

methods

you

will use. The wingman will laugh at your jokes, assist you with

|

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games, and help you in the conversations. The wingman is your traction mentor, and

with

stalls

savior, atfriend. He holds all of your cards and you should hold all of his. When you go into a group or make an approach, the wingman should be there to critique your body language tonality and the women’s reactions. He should be able to identify your problem areas, help you

work

them

out,

and

vice

versa. Have a signal when you want your wingman to help you or get you Out ©£ a group that you don't want to talk to anymore.

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the

becoming

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schedule, Get 4 p e e k d n a r e n a plan re you know u s e k a m d n a a newspaper town on around tire goings each

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apwhile much talking to them.

too Smile Don'tproaching or while

e confiDo- Smile because you ar to something have you and dent Most guys who come to smile about. are they while smile classes the at talking

to

no

harm.

tries

to

mean

they

to

women

them

show

a very

feel

Guys

th

hard gut feeling going against makthe ing fun of a girl because of went they programming social of this ig à The result through. t9 guy

who

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Do-

Be

the

or

person

anything

who

is

get

more

in

control of themselves than anyone else around. Women are attracted to the rock. Everyone wants to have a leader who they can trust to be

calm The

and

AMG

collected

is

on. This about it

the

in

rock

emergency.

women

is as simple as and making sure

aware of your own SO you can control

Don'tknow?"

an

can

count

thinking you are

emotional it.

state

Use words like "yeah," "right?" and “you see?"

"you

DoEnd your sentences where they should end. These words convey that you need confirmation from the other person to validate what you are saying. When you are confident, no one else needs to verify any-

thing

you

Say.

confirmation anyone.

Don’tDo-

to

Fidget

Keep

move,

You

or

your body “re

hands

until

Fidgeting

ments indicate ety, and worst

you

and

or

feet.

are

fast

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way,

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as

no from

nervousness, of all, fear.

in a fluid

in a tub

need

validation

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still

will

ready

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anxiMove

if you

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yoursSelf..EVER!

about

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tenes: s,

and tell people, Do- Talk up other yourself. Bragfunny stories about one thing: only communicates

ging You want

because whatever you actubecause

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cool, smart, you say SO,

are

you

think

to

people

those all are you If are. ally through. things, they will show pon’ t-

or

ladies,”

“hey,

with

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giris.”

“hey,

Or just plain Do- Use "hey, guys, or girls con"hey." Saying ladies means you It s. al gn gi py ee cr veys at them as womer and looking are to them that way. you will relate rid of you They will want to get quickly.

Don'tand

face

Do-

Walk

them. almost

your

first

ten

keep

your

feet

them,

past

seconds

of

cation over your shoulder. know you have to get going in

if you were about Try this exercise: gtand

facing

stand

four

his

him,

women

to

up

directly

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nose.

him,

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looking

the

and

commun

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to keep walki e Get a friend " four

inches

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in the

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is.

less

them pon’t-

It’s

more

comfortable

confrontational

to

not

and

face

immediately. Talk

too

fast.

DoSlow down your speech. People are usually dowho speak too fast ing it to avoid being interrupted. to pause for be afraid efDon’t think of a fect, or when you can't

word. for vou te will wait People to be don/t Beut this use finigh. cut. off. Make rude, Or wou'LLb.gdet. im. pac daily . caim.deet o yeyur meanor. Don’t-

Buy

women

Do-- Tell them welcome to buy

drinks.

they are more you one. (In a

than cocky

tone while smiling) If they persist On getting you to buy a drink, you needabo put your foot down. Refuse bo buy them drinks. If you are going to hang with them, this behavBor well mot be Bolerated. You have immediately boundaries or to set

fou’ 11 be EU

XIrv

invaded. to

compliment

women

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them.

to

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make

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rude

ar [m a mean

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rk, nerd, closet geek, Call her à do Dalai Lama eto, If pimp, man-hater, tell her ghe ahe's really skinny,

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but joking way, If this. about

in a cocky, backer, serious be Don't

gure make to kill, dressed she's e women are you tell her that all th these days, buying that same dress These are it. like but you still her

make

fun

suggest her.

you

and

names

these

of

all

of her, but in a way to like that quality about

call

will

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a way.

in

compliments

exin bars automatically Women TRES a lot. on hit to get pect the makes them feel like they own brings place. All you are doing is ing ing them to your level and lett but they them know you like them, aren't fooling you at all. Don't-

your Doyour

Look

friends

Make

friends.

looking

pay

you

sure around

to you.

talking

are

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the

while

room

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around

attention

you

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to

people

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are

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conversation

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sure

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interesting

fun.No one in your group for hot

chances

bar

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should “z

lookin"?

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Walk

PASSPORT

up

to

girls

from

be-

hind.

Do-

Make

sure

Walking

creepy

up

they

from

behind

thing is casual. Over is the best way to do

way best proaches. Don't-

Hover

group

of

over

a

you. little

Every-

out.

your shoulder this..it’s the

all

do

to

see

is

women

weirds

and

can

of

or

ap-

your

stare

at

a

women.

Do- Approach and start immediately if. they are close. Staying too close to a group of girls will make them

uncomfortable.

you’re

looking

Yes,

at

| .

Tell her

know

them.

Don't- Try to lean you can't hear her = let

they

in to a woman in a bar.

her you can't either stand

if

hear her and or move up,

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of

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or

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not:

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worry

about

don't

consequences.

talkative 264 Don’t

and

be

person.

afraid

impressing

are

dust to

make

|3e2 other®

feel bad. If you feel you need t? say it. Don't ever say something, try to camouflage your intent.

honest

and

direct.

you all kinds

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of respect 132

will

ear"

points:

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37. Resist

tensity

THE PASSPORT the of

the

share

to

need

emotions

you're

in-

feel-

ing.

to talk you when people 38. Touch them. Know that it’s okay to do. 39,Don’t pause too long when someone This a question. asks you thinking deep your indicates about the question and your need to give them the best possible answer..stop dong this! you when hands your 40.Steeple speak if you feel like you are This nervous. a little getting shows LOTS of confidence and is a leader indicator. 41.Don't walk too fast. This is another behavior that is used to break your own frame. Slow down and relax. Know you are the MAN. 42.Straighten

pelvis spread

your

spine,

forward, out. Take

tilt

your

relax, and up space..it’s

YOURS ! |

43.Don’t always respond when someone calls your name. When you do tespond, turn your head to them Slowly. 44, Keep it short and to the point.

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and

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like

away.

the

Start

in else someone conversation the like

it.

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are

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the if the

conversa-

talking

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talk

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put ever badly about

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act

will take you decide

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down or others someone else!!!

When you put others

reveals your Own inse If they are no threat: they

like

are-

up sides with to put down.

a life the two

Women

anyone AND

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in the alpha male's life. 134

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THE PASSPORT 52.If you treat people like they are cooler than you are, you are a beta

53.

male.

You must to

accept

always not

be

more

having

willing sex

than

she is. It must be completely fine with you that you aren't having sex. 54.Use clean language unless you really have to curse. Profanity is just like verbal violence: The people who use it are usually totally insecure and frightened by their lack of dominance. 55.Use violence as a LAST resort. The pack leader of any pack is not a‘ bully.

Qualities of the HUNTER: * Ability to withstand sharp pain (exercise and experiences) " ExrODer Nutrition (the alpha eats first and gets the best

relaxation (Conserving for the hunt) i AE Ab:ili lit y to ref iaxive i respond >

adgaressors

(i onveyed | through

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me

ai)

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(Prey

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drive

and

peers

and

quick decision-making skills) not reward, toward Motivated away from negative consequenceg to

Motivated

protect

in them assist cess/hunting strength Physical

their

suc-

and

power

(communicated through body lanquage alone) with other Strong eye contact (this doesn't mean starmales ing a guy down; it means smiling and being confident) outnot (does Intelligence

wardly display it or brag) to different Ability to adapt environments quickly (socially, of course) and Evolved

sensory Qualities

of

tandem

of

use

ALL

Systems the

Initiative the gests

LEADER:

(be the one idea first

who sugand the

first activity, and always ahead for contingencies)

pla”

Immediately and politely establishes his

Ability to

and caring

rank

show

both

correctio"

simultaneously

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to

aggressive

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others)

Goal-oriented (setting goals in very shortand long-term venues)

Generosity (sharing with lesser males and giving helpful advice when needed) Discipline (putting priorities in order and subordinating desires that don't contribute to

goals) Provider of security (this means emotional, too) Planning ahead (he's the one everyone

turns

to when

an

emer-

gency takes place) Passion (complete ability fall in love with one's lifestyle and hobbies)

to own

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to

be

cocky and mostly 1.

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much

to.? (Say around the

teasing/playful

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it

take

gemi T

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tone:

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Which

female

most

like

We're

both

pirates

to

actress

beat

up?

going

next

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to

time

dress

we

go

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of

trouble

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anyway...

ae

up

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as but

evil one you cause

ass at Star Trek like a trekkie.

Ne are SO going to fight later and I'm going to win. Then I'm

going

to

sit

on

you..and

maybe

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pletely off the wall that makes YOU smile.) Are you a drug dealer? "My mom would SOOO not approve EN

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TA convert for George Clooney? I woul and you that know 13.You I would win never get along..and

all the fights, too! 14.If she asks where you

are

from

tell her you were cryogenically frozen and you're actually from the sixties. Start using words groovy and hip. her you are from

like 15.Tell

you

are

just

visiting

Saturn

and

before

you

go back to Moon Base Bravo. 16.Teli her you are from the future come back in time and you have meeting from yourself stop to her tonight. or a saltshaker steal her 17.Make something for you. Tell her to put

it

write

later

small that

huge

purse

her

into

of

both

a

as

also

is

memento.

remember

thing

an

to

you

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will

on it

names

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can

you

and

(Anything

together joke

women.

18 2

Keep

matchbooks from restaurants, at coasters that you make her write on or sign etc. She will melt when she finds out you kept them.)

Dealing With Other Guys It’s going to happen eventually; insecure very are guys Most 140

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become

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old, faded should use

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