Table of contents : Contents Preface Acknowledgments Introduction Chapter 1. The Personal Touch Chapter 2. Forging an Identity Chapter 3. Limits of the Individual Chapter 4. The Place of Wealth Chapter 5. The Uses of Information Chapter 6. Deciphering the Unspoken Chapter 7. Showing Respect Chapter 8. The Matter of Sex Chapter 9. The Real Power of Women Chapter 10. Love and Its Expression Chapter 11. Coping with Conflict Chapter 12. Handling Uncertainty and Loss In Summary Suggested Reading Index About the Author